I’m getting a lot of questions about what living polygamy is really like. I’ll try to answer some of those questions here. 🙂

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  1. Thank you! you have just saved me or at least given me hope. I am a western woman married to an Indian Muslim because of work etc I’ve had to spend some time away. 6 weeks ago 2 weeks before I was due to arrive back he told me he’d met a woman he wants as 2nd wife and they had slept together – the pain is immense. I finished with him and began to look at divorce, then he rang saying how much he missed me. We met and spent 4 days fighting but in between the fights going out, having fun being affectionate. When I left I realised that we still have something special and I don’t want to lose it – yet. I’ve agreed to meet the 2nd wife to see for myself how this could work but on the phone he told me he would sleep with her then when I get there with me. Once I leave he will be with her again – the pain is like a knife in my heart and I just don’t know what to do. He’s said he has no problem if I meet someone else but for me generally once I’m committed that’s it – I’ve never looked at another man. Your story has given me hope realising that I’m not the only one who feels this way or is going through this. I’m dreading going there and meeting her. I’ve tried to make friends with her via Facebook etc but she’s blocked me – and he wants us all to live in the same house together ….! But again thank you. I was going to change my mind about meeting her but reading this I’ve found the courage to at least try. Any help or advise you can give would be so appreciated. How can I be nice to her when I really just want to rip her head off …?

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