I have been reading some of your posts and I am sometimes upset and sometimes worried and saddened by your disregard for the wisdom of sharia. I have some questions.
When you have your child, whom shall the child call father and whom shall the child obey? And whose name shall the child carry?
Polygamy is healthy and safe but polyandry brings much risk of std, how can you defend that?
How can you keep woman’s feminine nature in caring for her house, husband and children if you must act like a man?
How can you respect a husband who allows you to have another man?
How can you live with this pain and jealousy and hurt that you are giving your husband?
Polygamy is allowed with restrictions to be fair and just and protect your wives and care for them. It is allowed because it is good for the women and children too. If you are jealous or hurting you could have had help from a wise imam or a good online forum and it makes me much sad to see you hurt your husband and children instead.
I wish you well and hope you will make good on this.
Answer: Wow. I’ll just bite my tongue and hope somebody else will answer this, as I think I’d better calm down before I put anything down in print. //F