I am polygamous, so what?
I just did not give any heed to whatever people said or did, including my own first wife. It was my life and of course, my destiny.
Years ago, when I wanted to marry my second wife, I asked our Imam in Aberdeen for his advice. He told me a phrase that still remains in my heart today, he told me: “you have to know that if you are going to marry another one, then this is a halal of Allah, this is a Sunnah, and you are certainly not doing anything wrong”.
It is true, this is a halal of Allah, I do not see why are people trying to make it a crime today if one wants to marry another woman. It is abnormal to see all this animosity towards a man trying to take another one, making it like it was so unfair to his first wife etc, just as if the first wife had a veto to decide on the future of her husband. (Source: Thankful Slave)
Here is an example of the typical, self-righteous, abusive muslim husband and father. His sexual lust, his desires and his appetite are the only things that matter and his wife and children will pay the price. Islam and imams claim that god is on his side. This man’s triumph in being allowed by his god and his religion to satiate his base sexual and sadist lust seeps through every word he writes, his satisfaction in watching his first wife and his children having to submit to his sexual and mental assault equals him to a modern Fagin. This man glories in the fact that his religion allows it.
I would very much like to know if this man is prepared to eat the dish he so willingly is serving, if he would be able to cope with having done unto him what he has done unto others, if he would be able to love for his brother what he loves for himself?
“Your husband of today is the same one of yesterday, and the same one of tomorrow”
These are the words I told my first wife when I married my second one. I also took my children and told them in these words: “Listen, you dad has done nothing wrong, your dad of today, is the same one of yesterday and will be the same one tomorrow. Nothing has changed in us, it is just that dad has now another wife”.
Of course, there has been initial storms at home, but let me highlight it again to any reader here: I just did not give any heed to whatever people said or did, including my own first wife. As of women who then threaten to divorce if the husband takes another one, then let it be. I have always told my first wife during the early stages of my Polygamy life that between a halal of Allah and you, who do you think I will chose? Let us be us, let just be who we are, just Muslim men and women, husband and wife, let us respect each others, and not keep blames and disputes for a halal of Allah.(Ibid.)
The image of this disgusting man with children on his lap, just come from fucking e.g. a teenage girl, or a 9 year old child, while breaking his first wife’s heart, telling his children he has done nothing wrong, that dad is allowed to fuck other women and destroy the lives of his wife and children, makes any sane person vomit. The violent misogyny, the hatred against any woman who would try to claim any form of right, is sickening. And this man, although a criminal, is allowed to live a free man, being around children, and has obviously also lived in the UK.
-Nothing has changed, dad has done nothing wrong. I have given up at least half my life with you, I have broken your mother’s heart, she might kill herself, I will never be there for you when you need me if I’d rather be off banging my other wife, or fucking nr 3 or nr 4, but I have done nothing wrong ’cause daddy’s allowed, and if your mother says I have she’s going to hell.
Over and over again he tells us how he spits at justice and UK law:
“(Polygyny) is not a crime and has never been one either.”
Why do people object to polygyny? To men marrying second, third or fourth wives against their first wife’s wishes, sometimes without telling her about it until afterwards?
Thankful Slave (slave to his own sexual sadism, I have found nothing else guiding him…) tells us it is because of the ungratefulness of wives!
The people say, “O Allah’s Apostle! We saw you taking something from your place and then we saw you retreating.” The Prophet replied, “I saw Paradise and stretched my hands towards a bunch (of its fruits) and had I taken it, you would have eaten from it as long as the world remains. I also saw the hell-fire and I had never seen such a horrible sight. I saw that most of the inhabitants were women.” The people asked, “O Allah’s Apostle! Why is it so?” The Prophet replied, “Because of their ungratefulness.” It was asked whether they are ungrateful to Allah. The Prophet said, “They are ungrateful to their companions of life (husbands) and ungrateful to good deeds. If you are benevolent to one of them throughout the life and if she sees anything (undesirable) in you, she will say, ‘I have never had any good from you.’ ” (Sahih Bukhari, Book #18, Hadith #161)
Reading some of the blogs on internet, it is interesting (and sad) to note that some of the sisters are falling in the trap, and can only enumerate a full list of negative characters of their husbands, just like these persons never did any good to them (note the word “never”).
This is particularly true if such sister saw her husband marrying another woman
So the woman who has her life destroyed, who is abused, mentally raped, raped every time she has to open her legs and let her abusive husband invade her body carrying the traces of fluids from his last fuck with another woman on him, the wife who is continually violated by her husband, is the one going to hell.
Thus this muslim man shows us the true face of muslim misogyny, the real face of evil.