Question: How do I talk to my wife about wanting a second wife?
Answer: You tell her you want a second wife, with no lies and no subterfuge. You tell her that you naturally accept that she has exactly the same right to marry plural spouses, and that you will embrace her becoming polyandrous wholeheartedly and without reservations or restrictions. You tell her you understand the enormous pain and hurt of polygamy and that you would never dream of asking this sacrifice of her without naturally offering to do the same for her. You would never do to another what you would not have them do to you – least of all your wife. You tell her that you love her unconditionally, and that if she has any objections to your becoming polygamous you will naturally respect that and stay monogamous for the rest of your life.