A woman had a horrible accident happen to her little baby boy. He ended up in hospital, covered in second degree burns. As a mother I can imagine the pain and the worry.
The husband comes to visit in hospital too, and every time he brings the woman he is intending to take as second wife. With the awful accident happening, the future co’s father postponed the nikah until the baby boy is out of hospital. Note: The husband didn’t care enough about his sick boy or the tormented wife to postpone the wedding to a second wife, the future father in law was the one who had to step in and show some fragments of human decency.. Bringing the wife-to-be is obviously a way for the husband to show his power over the first wife, a way to sadistically force her into submission in a situation when she is hurting and falling apart. This is sexual sadism, male superiority sadism, perverted evil.
How does the first wife react?
So the date (for the nikah)is set for Sunday.
I have until then to prepare myself I really wanna be able to rise to the occasion so please pray for me as well as for my boy to keep healing and getting stronger In’shaa Allāh.
While we were in hospital my co was there every day. Someone asked who she was in front of her and hub – and before he had chance to say the words for fear they would stab my heart, I said “she’s my cowife to be.”
I think hub saw a sign of acceptance and was a bit pleased. But I felt sick the whole day.
I suppose healing is always painful – in’sha all these tests will be purifying for me.
The way islam teaches women to deal with the abuse of forced polygyny and the eternal oppression, beatings, religious and mental torture that are recommended in islam, that islam has given divine rights to men to use against their wives, is by taking pleasure in subjecting to the rape, beatings and abuse. Islam is teaching women they must be masochists, and the final prize is that the most perfect masochist will be allowed to be her husband’s prisoner for eternity in the islamist “Beavis and Butthead” paradise where she will have to continue sharing her husband forever with both the cos and allahs own whores – the hoori. Isn’t that great? So this brainwashed, warped woman is trying to find pleasure in the pain and abuse her husband is inflicting, and muslims are cheering.
And on Sunday her husband is becoming a bigamist.
Isn’t it just lovely?