Question: Jealousy is one of the worst parts of polygamy I think. Picturing my husband with his other wives is so hurting, it drives me crazy. Other women tell me this is Shaytaan speaking, but I simply think it is my husband having sex with other women speaking.. lol.. If I had sex with other men I have a feeling Shaytann would speak loudly to my husband! 😀 I read on another blog that you shouldn’t let your imagination run away with you, that the simple truth is that what your husband is doing to you when you make love is probably what he is doing to his other wives too. Is that true?
Answer: Thanks for a good question – gutsy! 🙂
No – it is not true. Different people do different things. Firstly, when you are just married, sex is tantalizing, exciting and an adventure. It’s about discovery. So you do new things in a new way. For example, Graham has erogenous zones around the neck and chest, so I do a lot of kissing, rubbing and licking there. My husband has his sensitive areas around the thighs. So my focus differs… Graham loves doggystyle. My husband loves having me on top. Et.c. My husband says it’s the same for him. His #2 e.g. refuses to give head, and refuses to have him go down on her. With me and my husband this is a treat for both of us. So no, it is not true. It is definitely a lie. If you think about it you understand it must be a lie.
Trying to overcome jealousy might be good, but don’t do it by deceiving yourself.
Instead – why not let satan do some talking to your husband? 😉