He asked me if he could answer. Off course, this is against the rules we have agreed on. Nu skyping, no texting, on another spouse’s day. His second “wife” has agreed too. So I said no. He was going to turn the laptop off then, but I told him not to. I told him we should find out how much respect my “co-wife” has for my marriage, for keeping a promise. It turned out she has none. She kept trying to call over and over again through the night. Finally we just had to put the laptop in another room, so she would still be able to call and it would be registered even though we didn’t have to hear it.
So I told my husband that his little whore has proven herself once again to be a person completely without honour. I know that it is allowed to lie in islam, but he must tell her that as she has chosen to get involved with people in the civilized world, she must refrain from blatant lies. In the future my husband must hold her to her promises.
She must be taught to respect my marriage. I have made my husband promise he will punish her severely for breaking her word. He will however wait until I have gone back to Graham. At least my husband has understood that breaking the rules now is a no no.