In return, Muhammad married a second wife. He told #1 in advance, and wrote about the screams of pain, the tears, the begging and the prayers for mercy that his wife showered him with.
Muhammad’s reaction was to pray for Allah to make him a strong leader so he could make his wife understand that Muhammad’s right to marry again outweighs any consideration he owes his wife. Respect, love, consideration and mercy were not something that came into the equation. Muhammad’s lust for a new wife and his right as a man to demand obedience and compliance from his first wife when he decided he wanted an arab wife to get some variety and new excitement in bed was all that mattered. Muhammad enjoyed showering the blog with quotes from the Quran and the hadiths that proved that this was the correct islamic view. His wife’s objection, according to Muhammad was due to her being low in deen.
So, Muhammad married a second wife, a woman who, being arab, had no qualms what so ever about marrying a married man, even though she knew that the first wife almost died from the pain.
The first wife’s becoming seriously ill from the unbelievably painful trauma did nothing to stop Muhammad – his god given right to fuck another woman was more important to him than the life of his first wife. The only thing that really upset him was his wife’s reaction, her not immediately submitting to his superior rights.
He spends almost two years complaining about how his first wife is making life hard on him, just because he is using the rights Allah has given him as man and husband.
It has been nearly 2 years since I married second wife. I have tried many times that both meet and see each other. In my view that would resolve lot of misunderstanding and bad feelings. However my wife 1 does not want to hear wife 2 name. Second wife is little more understanding, as she came into my life knowing that I have another wife. However for first wife I have cheated and destroyed her dreams and ambitions.
I do not know what to do. I wanted a calm life and to be loved. However what I have end up lot of headache. I know you would say I should have content with one wife. What I do not understand most wives we accept it is allowed in Islam but I would not accept for me.
Eid is always time for trouble, where shall spend that day. One is always not happy, both lives 500 miles apart, both want Eid morning to be spend with her. Even for me the Eid is now ruined.
Lot of times do not feel going home and face any of the wife.
Poor, poor Muhammad! ^^
As we can see, he is absolutely renons of any empathy with his wives, any ability to see that any of this is his own fault. He is a man, a muslim man, and as such he has god given superiority and god given rights to satisfy his own ego, his own sexual dreams of fucking many women, and no obligation at all to consider his wives. Well there are some rules saying that a man should be kind to his wife, but this doesn’t really mean anything when that kindness doesn’t even include letting her have a say in his taking a new wife…. =0
And what advice does he get from the Hater Ana?
You can’t let the wives control you. You have to be the authoritative figure.
Muhammad lets us know that his way of handling the situation is to threaten the wives. He tells them that if they don’t submit to him willingly and serve him at home and in bed without complaints, he will marry #3. Alhamdulillah…
He brags about being a good husband, and gives as an example of this that he didn’t force himself on his first wife when the pain of his getting a second wife stopped her from being able to have sex with him. Having sex with his wife whenever he wants, no matter how the wife feels about it, is a god given right to the husband and he can beat his wife if she says no, or deny her food, but guess what – Muhammad is such a wonderful husband that he didn’t beat her!!
Even when Muhammad tries to come off as empathic, he gives himself up as an egotistic, male chauvinist psychopath pig:
I understand first wife suffer more in polygamy at least this is the case for my first wife. She has lost weight (from suffering), ..however it is good thing for I like her new figure even more.
Further on, Muhammad tells us that when his second wife went into labour, he left her to go to his first wife instead. She was going through hell knowing that he was having a baby with #2, and Muhammad figured that her mental instability might offer him an opportunity to force her back to his bed. So he used this moment of acute depression and psychological illness to trick her back to having sexual relations with him. This of course constitutes rape. So when his second wife was in hospital to give birth, he left her to be able to use his first wife’s PTSD to fuck and rape her.
Later on, Muhammad’s first wife miscarried, due to the stress and never ending pain of being forced by her husband to live polygamy. By continuously torturing and raping his first wife Muhammad killed her child. One of the women at Polygamy411 dared suggest that he, having caused the death of his first wife’s expected child by his continual selfish cruelty, might refrain from making #2 pregnant immediately, but give #1 time to mend before she had to live with hubby making the other wife pregnant.
Muhammad was very indignant at this suggestion. No WAY was he going to consider the feelings of his first wife – it is HIS RIGHT to have as much sex and as many babies as he chooses from any of his wives and even suggesting that he might want to show some consideration for his #1 was horrendous…
Muhammad is a splendid example of the true face of an islamist husband. This is what men become when they believe they are superior and have been given rights over women by god. He shows us how the askewed views on gender and sex offered by certain interpretations of islam make abusers and haters out of men.
It’s men who think like Muhammad who beat their wives, starve their wives, rape women who dare be on the streets, kill girls who want to go to school. All in the name of religion. All the while stressing how obedient they are to the words of god, and what good protectors they are of women.
(Source for all Muhammad’s quotes:polygamy411.com)